Regardless of your age if you have a very independent woman who give birth to a child, a girl who is very sensitive to help you, you need warmth and affection. This girl, you will carry with you, needs love and acceptance.If you have trouble being close to others is that you do not know your inner child.
The girl you and is afraid she is suffering, be it for them, it is important to heal the child has forgotten that most of us ignore for a long time, or ignore their existence.
Any age who lives in you, in your consciousness and memory of his childhood, when something was wrong, that you think it's your fault prone, has the girls the idea that it would be built perfect, flawless, and his parents wake his family would not love it, and will not be penalized if they can not have something I'm not good enough to be said, I do deserve it, and it grows, it rejects parts of itself.
Since you have a girl, there is also a father to you, to have a son and a father, and almost always critical and the father the child feel guilty every time we are in the same war with us ...
As adults, we have no idea of the girl, who is in us, every time you say that the fear of man, has given up or quit, knowing that the child who is afraid of you, and you're leaving , feel and gives the adults it was not for the child.
Take the child to understand that no matter what happens, never leave you, always for them and loves them.
Start playing the father of your child's relationship vis internal vote in contact with her.If your child has passed under the sign of fear and violence, and mentally destroyed today, the girl still subject to the same treatment he has received.
1st Find a picture of himself. 5 year old daughter, eye contact, observe carefully whether he was happy or fearful.
2nd Ask apologize first, first say, you are unfortunately ignored these years have protected and loved
3rd Tell him you want to catch up, we ask ourselves, do what you can do to make him happy
4th Ask what scares him, and that is all goes well, I'm an adult now and I'll see you let anyone hurt, there is no reason to have fear.
5th We would be pleased, I wonder what it would be fun, says all the wonderful things he would like to hear.
They are the parents now, take care of your child, need to give comfort and care and no other attributes blame your parents, your husband or your lifeBe at this time, the joy of life with your child and for them, so that, regardless of their growing up, good or bad, you are responsible.
The girl you and is afraid she is suffering, be it for them, it is important to heal the child has forgotten that most of us ignore for a long time, or ignore their existence.
Any age who lives in you, in your consciousness and memory of his childhood, when something was wrong, that you think it's your fault prone, has the girls the idea that it would be built perfect, flawless, and his parents wake his family would not love it, and will not be penalized if they can not have something I'm not good enough to be said, I do deserve it, and it grows, it rejects parts of itself.
Since you have a girl, there is also a father to you, to have a son and a father, and almost always critical and the father the child feel guilty every time we are in the same war with us ...
As adults, we have no idea of the girl, who is in us, every time you say that the fear of man, has given up or quit, knowing that the child who is afraid of you, and you're leaving , feel and gives the adults it was not for the child.
Take the child to understand that no matter what happens, never leave you, always for them and loves them.
Start playing the father of your child's relationship vis internal vote in contact with her.If your child has passed under the sign of fear and violence, and mentally destroyed today, the girl still subject to the same treatment he has received.
1st Find a picture of himself. 5 year old daughter, eye contact, observe carefully whether he was happy or fearful.
2nd Ask apologize first, first say, you are unfortunately ignored these years have protected and loved
3rd Tell him you want to catch up, we ask ourselves, do what you can do to make him happy
4th Ask what scares him, and that is all goes well, I'm an adult now and I'll see you let anyone hurt, there is no reason to have fear.
5th We would be pleased, I wonder what it would be fun, says all the wonderful things he would like to hear.
They are the parents now, take care of your child, need to give comfort and care and no other attributes blame your parents, your husband or your lifeBe at this time, the joy of life with your child and for them, so that, regardless of their growing up, good or bad, you are responsible.
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